The Inner Brat

Did you know that the only thing that holds you back from the life you want for yourself is your inner brat? So maybe you call yours something different, but we all have one.

It's that inner voice, inner villain, inner bitch, you decide what works best for you. It's that voice that says you're too old, you don't have the education, you're too fat, not pretty enough, not wealthy enough and the list goes on and on. It's the noise of negativity that has you believe that you are not enough, that there is someone else better than you at everything you want to do, no matter what that is.

However, the amazing thing is that you are in control of that voice, you have the power to turn down the noise and increase the volume of your inner goddess, the magnificent person that can be all that you ever imagined.

The inner brat is all fears that you have been conditioned to believe. The inner brat is amplifying all of the criticisms that someone in your life has thrust upon you. They are not your beliefs, they are your doubts.

Doubt = A feeling of uncertainty or lack of conviction.

We must learn to crush our doubts. Doubts are nothing more than fear of the unknown, and what is fear? False Evidence Appearing Real.

We live in a world of fear but we do not have to let fear disable our dreams or cripple our desires. We need to push through the procrastination of everyday life choices.

If we truly want to make a difference in our own lives then we must do the opposite of what we feel when that negative little brat whispers in our ear.

Changing habits is not easy, if it were easy everyone would do it. Changing

our habits is what makes us different to most of the population. Changing our habits is what makes us successful and changing our habits is what ultimately will create the dream life that we desire.

As Albert Einstein so famously said- We can not continue to do the same thing over and over and expect a different result.

It is time that we set our goals, had a real vision of what we want our future life to be and took the steps to create that dream life. Life does not come with a pre set GPS that we can follow.

We are our own tour guide. We get to decide, however sitting in our comfort zone thinking it will work itself out or someone else will figure this out for us is delusional.

Why would we want to give that power to anyone else? don't you want to be the creator of your own dream? Personally I am all in, I want to have my desires realised, and no one knows what that is except me, I am the captain of my own destiny and I look forward to every step that I take on this journey.

This is not a sprint, it is a marathon, in fact I think its a cross country marathon, it has many hurdles and side steps along the way but I am determined and focused, my inner brat is not my master, she is my warning, I need her to remind me that her negativity is a challenge that keeps me focused and determined to move forward.

Her voice is still here but I get to dim her light with my illumination of positive thoughts, keeping my inner goddess strong and powering through the waves of procrastination.

Don't let your inner brat lead you back to your comfort zone, take the uncomfortable action into your future.

xx Lei

THERE IS A BATTLE OF TWO WOLVES INSIDE US ALL. ONE IS EVIL, IT IS ANGER, JEALOUSY, GREED,RESENTMENT, LIES, INFERIORITY AND EGO. THE OTHER IS GOOD, IT IS JOY, PEACE, LOVE, HOPE, HUMILITY, KINDNESS, EMPATHY AND TRUTH. THE WOLF THAT WINS? THE ONE YOU FEED. Cherokee Proverb